I'd like to say that when I went natural I was doing it for social injustice and women empowerment, but to be honest, I just got tired. I was tired of having to put so much effort into my hair. I was entering college, and I knew I wouldn't have the time or energy to … Continue reading What Being Natural Taught Me
If you're doing things to please other people, stop in your tracks. You will never live up to their expectations. There will always be something to change, something to mend, something to fix. They are molding you into what they dream you to be. What do you want? No, really? What do you want? Have … Continue reading You Are That Flower
Music is a huge part of my life. Even when I don't have something pumping in my headphones or I'm not jamming in my car or singing in the shower, I find myself breaking into song. I could hear a word or phrase that reminds me of a lyric in mid-conversation, and I find myself … Continue reading It’s Music To My Ears
A year ago today, I graduated with a degree in Business Communication. I have a passion for writing, and I felt as though that major would lead me towards opportunities in my chosen career — journalism. My passion is also one of the many reasons why I started this blog. It's amazing to see so many … Continue reading A Year Ago Today
Mothers don't get enough credit. I'm sure my mom has a smirk on her face while reading this, but it's true. They worry (a lot) about their kids who they have carried on their backs for so long and have to watch drift away. They want so much to hold on for just a little … Continue reading This Is For You, Mom
Being resentful is as easy as breathing. You don't loathe a particular person or thing. You are hateful because you feel gypped, mistreated, undervalued. Why do they get to be in that position when I have worked just as hard as them? Why won’t they listen to me when we have been married for several … Continue reading Turn Resentment Into Joy
I look forward to the Japanese cherry blossoms' arrival, but with the sporadic fluctuation in weather, I knew that their appearance would be lacking. Despite it all, the effervescent nature tried its best to hang on, and we (my boyfriend and I as well as a couple of friends) made the most of what was given.We … Continue reading Kites and Blossoms Galore
I am 22 years old, which is quite young according to many, but that doesn't mean I haven't had my fair share of trying times. I've dealt with death. I've dealt with heartache. Sadness did not come too far behind, and worry followed shortly after. There have been moments where all I wanted to do … Continue reading This Is Your Teaching Moment
We hoard our feelings, hoping that they'll never explode.Suppression is an epidemic in many of our lives because we want to seem put together. We want to make everyone else around us think that we have it under control. One after the other, they pile up. Depression, anxiety, sickness, painful circumstances, undeniable hurt. Whatever it … Continue reading When It All Comes Crashing Down
Undoubtedly, my favorite time of day is losing the kicks and letting the dogs out after getting home from a long day's work. Though the walk from my office to the metro station isn't far behind. From being sick these past few days, it's safe to say I've been quarantined, drowsy and stuffy. Some days … Continue reading Let Go of It
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